AnchoredConflict with Grace
Handling disagreement with humility
Learn to stay tender and truthful when emotions run high and old patterns try to take over.
Grace in conflict keeps the relationship larger than the issue in front of you.
Where fights come from
“Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don't they come from your pleasures that war in your members?”
Think of our last argument. Underneath it, what did you actually want?
In Anchored, you each answer on your own phone. Your answers stay private until you have both submitted, then unlock together.
Your 30 days
in Conflict with Grace.
- Day 1Where fights come fromJames 4:1
- Day 2Slow to angerProverbs 15:18
- Day 3Pride and adviceProverbs 13:10
- Day 4The beamMatthew 7:3
- Day 5Overlooking an offenseProverbs 19:11
- Day 6What anger doesn't produceJames 1:20
- Day 7A quick temperProverbs 14:29
- Day 8Ruling your spiritProverbs 16:32
- Day 9Not evil for evilRomans 12:17
- Day 10PeacemakersMatthew 5:9
- Day 11An honor to step backProverbs 20:3
- Day 12Without complainingPhilippians 2:14
- Day 13For lack of woodProverbs 26:20
- Day 14Not hastyEcclesiastes 7:9
- Day 15Until the other speaksProverbs 18:17
- Day 16A spirit of gentlenessGalatians 6:1
- Day 17Between you aloneMatthew 18:15
- Day 18Things that make for peaceRomans 14:19
- Day 19Gentle toward all2 Timothy 2:23-24
- Day 20A soft tongueProverbs 25:15
- Day 21Wisdom from aboveJames 3:17
- Day 22Sparing wordsProverbs 17:27
- Day 23Believes all things1 Corinthians 13:7
- Day 24Put onColossians 3:12
- Day 25A tree of lifeProverbs 15:4
- Day 26Biting and devouringGalatians 5:15
- Day 27An honest answerProverbs 24:26
- Day 28Put awayEphesians 4:31
- Day 29Together in unityPsalm 133:1
- Day 30Of the same mindRomans 15:5
How each day works
- Read the same Scripture. One short passage, the same for both of you.
- Answer one question. Privately, in your own words. It takes about five minutes.
- Unlock together. When you have both answered, you see each other’s heart.
Begin together in Anchored.
Each of you answers privately, and your answers unlock together. One purchase covers you both: $4.99/month with a 3-day free trial, $19.99/year, or $39.99 once for life.
Free to download. For iPhone. USD pricing; local App Store pricing may vary.